2021-11-11 17:02:34
Please don’t go with the title of book. “Dear Man,
No means no,”
Book starts with some historical and ancient case of rape .
Why rape in world?
He raped his wife in front of his eyes because earlier, a ‘wife’ was treated as a ‘Husband’s Property”.
Psychodynamics of Rape - There are three components to this in all cases of forcible rapes: control, rage and sexuality.
sex is an instrument of power and rage to compensate for feelings of inadequacy, distress, weakness, and retaliation, for feelings of shame, aggression, and resentment”
sexual interactions are performed in either of the three ways: through agreement and consent, through coercion and manipulation, or through force and abuse.”
“Sex is the essential biological need but not forced sex”Food, fresh air, water, shelter, ambient temperature, and energy are still the most essential survival needs. To be happy, stable people, and to live a basic life, all our six needs must be met consistently”
ways to help the survivor1. “Remain calm, listen to her, and believe in the victim:”
2. “Recognize their efforts and don’t judge:
It takes a lot of courage and strength to survive and speak about sexual assault ”
3. “Give them freedom and control”
4. “Support them but don’t control
5. Encourage counselling
How to stop this.If you want to stop the rape cases and want a change, then start it from your own home.
1. Sex education and Implemention
“Most young boys’ sex crimes are committed to fulfilling fascination towards women’s body parts and sexual experimentation. Public conversation is known to be a taboo, generating myths and hostile minds contributing to sexual assaults.”
2. “Education for School-based Sexuality:”
O Increase knowledge and understanding of sex. The law, the nature of sexual abuse, and what to do about it;
O Explore and clarify feelings, values, attitudes, self-esteem, and pride in one’s body;
O Developing or enhancing skills”
3. Good touch and bad touch
“Most predators don’t use “vagina” or “penis” during rape. When your daughter comes to you and says, “Uncle hurt my vagina”; what has happened is easier than if she approaches you with “uncle hurt my tummy”
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